I used to think that "TOLONG" reality show was only a made up show, means that it has been prepared: the actors, the scene etc. And I used to think that helping someone was easy to do because I'm used to doing it. Anytime some friends of mine complain that they are unemployed, I try to get them some information about job vacancies. Even sometimes there are some friends bring some English work I will give them a hand, how tired I am thou. So, the situation given in "TOLONG" reality show is an easy thing to do if it comes to me.
I believe the other will think so but it turns to be a ridiculous thing when yesterday, when my motor engine was dead, when magrib was approaching, when everyone had taken a bath, when I dragged my motor for more than 1 kilometer, I couldn't find anyone to help me.
When I found a repairing shop in the second kilometer , the repairer just simply said: "sorry, it's already closed". The next 100 meters the repairer said: "It's late already." What could I do? I'm just a woman who doesn't know anytthing about machine and stuff. It wasn't that bad actually because I called a friend that I supposed he could do aomething. He just had a walk with me instead since he doesn't know about repairing thing either.
I could drop tears kind of when everyone refused to help. It was no longer about making money for the repairer, but it was helping someone who couldn't go home when the dark came that it would be too risky being on the street that crime might happen too, and who knows that the person's home is far enough. Moreover, she was a woman.
Through a hard effort I reached a repairer shop that is near my house already. I left it there because the repairer said that he was too tired to fix the motor but it was okay since he is trustworthy. At the end, everything has been done well. And this morning I was able to ride my motor to work this morning.
I believe what I have told is quite familiar with our daily lives where sometimes we need some help or sometimes we have to help. However, there will be kind of burden when we are ask to help since there are somethings to consider. After helping it doesn't appear that we'll be paid the same as we have done. It is understandable if those thoughts come up but I believe it will always be good to help even we have to sacrifice our own. The payment might not come suddenly like we will be helped when we are in need but I believe it will be surely paid later in the here after.
So, why don't we gladly help no matter what?
